The semester is coming to an end at NUS. In retrospect, it's always easy to say 'time flies.' But I feel this way more and more as each day goes by. As a kid, I always remember feeling like time drags on. If this keeps progressing, I think the days may last as long as minutes.
I've been in Singapore for more than 3 months now. And I can feel myself assimilating into their pace of life more easily. I get less frustrated when someone is walking in slow motion in front of me. I have figured out what times of the day are least busy on the MRT/buses. I think it may be more of a mild resignation to this culture as well. It's an acceptance and integration that has kickstarted my self-recognition that I
appreciate certain aspects of the Singaporean/Asian culture. And as in any environment, you seek those out who are most similar to you, and once you make a connection I realize that the differences are negligble (or maybe even equivalent) to commonalities.
I know some Rotary Scholars who have already planned to stay on in Singapore for a while after the end of the school semester next year. I know others who suddenly express the desire to remain in Singapore indefinitely. And the more people I speak with, I am often asked if I want to apply for medical school here or stay on as well in any other capacity. Maybe it's another sign of resignation to the question or environment or because I don't want to go back to America, or perhaps I am really starting to enjoy the Singaporean lifestyle. Whatever the reason may be, I find myself contemplating it more and more. The first 2 months here was filled with overstimulation in my mind and a lot of internal criticism about this culture and my own. But once settled, life is life, no? If an opportunity presents itself here, I don't know if I would turn it down.
I was sitting in my Chinese class today during our oral presentations (which largely consisted of various asian pop songs sung by the students along with some hand motions.) And there's something about the temperment of the asian students that I'm starting to accept and appreciate. There is a lack of poor attitude and complaining and overwhelming concern for "looking cool." Yes there are always exceptions to the rule. But in comparison to my college experience at UF, it's refreshing to be around students who don't whine and have attitudes. In the beginning I think it was difficult for me to acknowledge and accomodate to since I do the same things. And although I think the maturity levels are much different than kids my age in America, I'm enjoying this change in temperment.
My host Rotary club had an evening meeting this week with the District Governer. Interactors were also invited and I had the opportunity to see an induction for a former Rotary scholar, which I think was a very exciting time for him. Again, I got to meet new Rotarians, visiting Rotarians, and catch up with friends. I was impressed to meet some incredibly young Rotarians in my host club and see how much I had in common with them, even though we are from different backgrounds. The DG emphasized the need to increase membership, and increase fundraising in the district. The effort to maintain Rotary International is no easy task and from what I see, it requires the commitment of incredibly motivated people who truly believe
in Rotary and its' ideals. In addition to their professional career, and personal life, taking on the task of coordinating Rotary events as a president or governer or anything seems like a significant challenge.
I ate some really colorful dessert at the dinner. Apparently it is a mix of Peranakan dessert. I had to take a picture cause it was so small and individually wrapped.